On this day we celebrate the life of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. It has been dubbed "A day of service." I love that we honor Dr. King's memory by serving others as he was so adamant about serving our fellow beings. I would, however, encourage ones to remember Dr. King's works, his service, to humanity in his fight for human rights. We must not forget his dream because we have yet to realize it. The fact is, governments worldwide still have much to do in the way of gaining justice and equality for all humankind. The onus, though, is not just on governments, but also on we the people. There is much we can do to ensure equal rights for all, so a day of service is fitting, but might I suggest we extend it to many days.There are many ways to serve and I believe service, like all things, begins at home. I am not referring merely to your actual home, although it is a good place to start. Your friends, family, and community are all places where your service can be helpful. How many times has someone asked for your assistance and you found you were too busy or would be too put upon to oblige? I often have ones asking for a shoulder, an ear, a ride, money, support, and I try to give it. Some find ways to take advantage, and I get reprimanded by loved ones for "doing too much for people." That seems like such a selfish statement sometimes.
Dr. King once said, "An individual has not started
living until he can rise above the narrow confines of his individualistic
concerns to the broader concerns of all humanity." This statement makes me
think of the butterfly effect. The butterfly effect is a term used in chaos
theory to describe how small changes to a seemingly unrelated thing or
condition (also known as an initial condition) can affect large, complex
systems. The term comes from the suggestion that the flapping of a butterfly's
wings in South America could affect the weather in Texas , meaning that the tiniest influence on
one part of a system can have a huge effect on another part. So, if I set aside
my individualistic concerns and help someone in need, the effects of that
action can be far reaching.
If I buy someone a meal, I put money into the economy and
community, securing jobs for at least another day, which enables others to eat,
farmers to survive, children to be nourished so they can grow and become
productive members of society, possibly creating a better world...and that's
just how my buying a meal for someone might effect the business I purchased it
from! My point is, when we help one, it is never just one we help, and we help
ourselves in the process. If you can't find a reason to serve someone, think of
the butterfly effect and realize you will be serving all of humanity. More love.
